BE EXPECTANT! One of the most important things that will get you what you desire is if you show a readiness to receive it. Someone who works for something but doesn’t show a desire/excitement/eagerness for it does NOT merit it. You can try to argue that if you work for it, the logical thing is for you to receive it because you deserve it… But take a step back and think about that. If you deserve something, you show qualities WORTHY of it! So someone who works half as hard as you do, but shows that they want it with the attitude they give, will get it. You’ve got to want it! You’ve got to reallllly want it! And soon that hopeful attitude and anticipation, alongside hard work, will prove you worthy to receive, and will most definitely deliver!
Look desire in the eye :)