To Whom It May Concern:

I don’t know what your situation is, but I know sometimes we are in control to do something about it, yet we do nothing. Life is not perfect. There will be times you have absolutely no control over what goes on. But there is ALWAYS a time or two when you do, and it is important you take that opportunity to handle business.

If you don’t do something to change your situation, your situation will not change!

You need to stop enabling certain things that go on around you, because if you don’t you will not stop complaining. You know what the solution is, but you choose to ignore it and hope it will be better. Many times it wont…

Ignoring a problem is not the way to go, I personally learned that the hard way. Deal with it, move on from it, and don’t look back. If you know what to do, do it. If you don’t, seek counsel. The last thing you want to do is live a life you are not happy about, because life is way too short to worry about that. So stop doing nothing, and worrying about people you are trying to please, and thinking about what others will say.

Don’t stay in the midst of chaos when it can be rectified. Walk away from it. You are too good for that lifestyle. You are worthy of a life of less pain, less sadness, and less annoyance if you can help it. Obviously you cannot control everything. It is impossible. But you have the power to handle the few that are doable. Believe that!

So leave that abusive relationship that hurts you more than it helps you. Deal with that financial crisis – there should be no reason why you keep drowning in debt; It was enough the first time. Let go of that friendship that keeps you dissatisfied. It is not the end of the world.

Listen… It’s not as easy as I make it sound, but if you are determined you will come out of it. Nothing worth it is ever easy. So stop being afraid and do what needs to be done. You got this.

– A.