When someone cares, you know. Its that simple. You just know.
You don’t have to do anything extra to get their attention. You don’t have to go out of your way to crave their concern. You don’t need to drop hints and then worry about being subtle. You don’t need to send messages with hidden agendas. You don’t do a.n.y.t.h.i.n.g. extra.
If they cared – they will probe without needing your assistance… they’ll ask about it (whatever it is)… they’ll inquire more than necessary… they’ll read between the lines… Even to the point where they might get annoying and you might have to ask them to back off just a tad bit.
But that’s just it! You see that they care without too much effort on your part. No bait needed, no muscle to reel them in. No extra attention given. If they cared, they’ll care!
So open your eyes and see who really cares. If you’re trying too hard, enough. They’re not worth it, and you probably need better. Be yourself.
They’ll care, and you wont have squat to do with it.